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How to change your life? 11 AWESOME RULES

How to turn your life around 180 degrees?

How to change your life? Learn these 11 rules to change your life.

My story in a big nutshell

I live in a wonderful Cracow, I have a beautiful fiancée and soon we move into our dream apartment with a view of Cracow. I sell about 1000 books a month on Amazon, I work successfully as a manager and I run my blog, which is my great passion and it brings me a nice extra income.

How to change your life
Me in Cracow (2019) after the big changes that started in 2013

I am healthy and everything is as it should be—this is what my life looks like and after a long time of reflection it sounds quite cool. Maybe your you it’s a big success, or maybe it’s just something normal. You’re the only one who knows the answer, but for me it’s a big deal. Why? Because my life used to be completely different, and to get all this, I had to change myself completely. In this article, I will show you how I changed my life and how you can change your life for the better.

How did the past look?

I’ve always been a very closed person. In high school, I practically had no friends and I wasn’t particularly liked. I was very ill—I underwent 6 serious and painful sinus surgeries and spent many months in hospital for this reason. I avoided going to school as much as I could. My escape was computer games and loneliness. After high school and college it wasn’t much better. I couldn’t overcome my fear and usually locked myself in my comfort zone and I always missed opportunities to get anything that would give me luck.

I come from Oswiecim (a small infamous town near Cracow). Most of my family works in nearby car factories. I got my first job when I was 19 at a car parts factory in Tychy. I ran away from there very quickly and did not imagine living or working in such a place for a long time. I’ve tried my strength over the years in many different places. These were mainly factories and driver jobs. Unfortunately, for a long time I did not realize that I could do more, do something completely different than people around me.

The bottom and first motivation for change

The lack of faith in my own strengths and the lack of faith that I can do more than people in my surroundings over time have caused me serious problems. My then video recording and editing company collapsed, my long-standing relationship broke down, and I tried my strength unsuccessfully in random workplaces. Of course, I gave up everywhere because these were not places for me. Unfortunately, then I did not know that you should go your own life path instead of being like a flag in the wind. I was floating adrift without a goal and that’s how I couldn’t get anywhere.

It was only my final mental breakdown that made me think and I realized it was very bad. I was in a great depression and I enrolled in a psychologist. Then, I accidentally came across an audiobook for the book titled The Instant Millionaire  and I was enlightened. It was the first personal development book in my life that began a great transformation in my head. I realized I could do a lot more than my surroundings let me. I made my decision to leave to Cracow and plan my targets.

How to change your life for the better? My path

The beginnings in the Cracow were harsh. Apart from the move, I had no specific plan. I worked very hard at the beginning in a second-hand clothing sorting plant and I rented a small bachelor pad. Over time, I was fired (I was told I wasn’t a good fit) and immediately afterwards I got a job as a scooter driver at a restaurant in downtown Cracow. I realized then that I do not have to work in dirty factory facilities at all, but I can even be an ordinary driver and work in a colorful and lively place. It was an important lesson for me, and I couldn’t have this job in a small town.

So, every day I worked in downtown Cracow and met people from all over the world. Over time, I became a waiter at this restaurant and spent a very cool three years working in the food industry. In a colorful place and in an environment completely different from what I thought I was destined to. Meanwhile, I continued to see my shrink (it lasted over a year) and fight depression and my demons. However, I did not feel any improvement and I came to the conclusion that I had to gain knowledge of my problems by myself and I had to work to improve my own life for the better also by myself—I understood that no one would do that for me.

How to change your life
2018 — me on the roof of a Cracow tenement building. I was still working as a manager, when I already had 600 products on Amazon, and my blog was growing.

At the same time I read a lot of personal development books, biographies of well-known people and business books. After all, it led me to the topic of online and Amazon business. My passion for books and personal development has shifted to the creation of e-books and paper books with online tools. Using my skills, I developed online business and increasingly knew it was something for me. Constant learning and development gave me great happiness, and the creation of my products gave me great pride and increasing earnings.

With time, I even was promoted to the manager of that restaurant where I had worked as a driver and waiter. Who would’ve think it could happen. I worked very well as a manager, although it was not easy. This work required overcoming my comfort zone every day, because it isn’t easy to manage a company and a dozen people’s team. At work, I met my current fiancée and my life today is completely different from what I see if I look a few years back. Over time, I quit my managerial job  as my online business developed enough and as I put aside a solid  financial cushion.

I want to show you with this short story that no matter how bad you’re now, you can always make a difference. You won’t change your whole life in a few days, but if you change your mind, expand your comfort zone and act systematically, you’ll be a totally different person in a few years.

How to change your life? 11 rules

  • Change your thoughts

 

Start by gradually changing your thinking. How to do it? Read books by authors who achieved a lot in their lives. Inspire yourself to be even better—so over time your thinking will change and you will believe that you can change your life. See the post, where I show the best books that have changed my life.

  • Believe in yourself

If you surround yourself with positive things, read books, use affirmations, practice morning habits  every day, you can change your thinking and believe in yourself. If so many people can move forward, so can you. Remember, without self-belief, you won’t achieve anything.

  • Cross your comfort zone every day

I always talk about this—if you want to have something you don’t have, you have to do something you haven’t done yet. There is no shortcut and remember that over time you may even feel comfortable feeling discomfort. This is the only way. Do what scares you.

  • Act.

Just just. Maybe you don’t know much yet, maybe you lack confidence and money. You may not believe in yourself enough, but just act. Stop putting all this stuff away for later, do what you can here and now. For most things, your action will suffice and you will learn everything over time. You can do it.

  • Make mistakes

Fear of failure  is one of the most blocking things. If you can fight this fear, you have a good future ahead of you. Remember that everyone is scared—the question is will you give up and let it go? It’s your life and fight for it!

  • Learn and watch

No matter who you are now—maybe you already have a lot, or maybe you don’t have anything yet. But if you don’t learn new things, you stop developing. Learning things and development are the only way to get happiness and gain what we want from life.

  • Work damn hard

Unfortunately, you may not like it, but you have to work very hard if you want something. There is no shortcut, and to have something, you need to work hard. Often for years and for your entire life. Get ready for everyday hard work, but remember—if you do something you at least like, then work is very often a pleasure.

  • Cut your ties with wrong people

If you want to get out of the current life situation, you have to leave some people behind. Sometimes our surroundings drag us down. You have to leave what limits you behind. You have to have the courage to change your place of residence, work, friends and allow yourself to change your life 180 degrees.

  • Prepare for many difficulties

Do you think I will be easy? You’re definitely wrong. It will be hard, and changing your life is bloody difficult. However, this is the only way to what you really want. This process is a daily struggle with your own weaknesses and limitations.

  • Be a systematic person

You don’t have to do everything in one day because it’s impossible. Act systematically and take even one small step forward every day. After a year you will come out to lead and beat all those who do nothing. No one will be able to catch you up.

  • Don’t give up, NEVER!

You will certainly suffer many failures on different levels of your life and that is for sure. Remember that every failure brings you closer to the success and to your goals. Those who don’t fail at all are always those who do nothing.

Good luck!

How to change your life? 11 RULES — watch the video

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Hi, I’m Tomek. From Waiter To Millionaire.

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Today I’ll tell you
how to change your life.

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How to be in a completely different place
than you’re right now in a few years.

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I have a good life – it would seem
and that’s probably the case.

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I have a wonderful fiancée.

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We’ll be moving soon to a new apartment
with a view of Kraków.

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I sell around one thousand
books and e-books on Amazon.

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I successfully work
as a restaurant manager.

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I direct a team of a dozen or so people.

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I’m also blogging,
which is my passion.

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I’m selling my products on this blog,
which is another source of income.

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I’m doing great financially,
I’m resourceful and I’m healthy.

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So, everything’s alright.

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But is it a success?

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For one person,
it may be a great success,

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for the other
it can be something obvious.

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Because what’s the big deal
with a good job,

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additional income,
fiancée, apartment?

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That’s a standard.

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But for me it’s a huge success
and let me tell you why.

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Let’s start with
describing my background.

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When I was a teenager in high school,
I was in a very bad situation.

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I had almost no friends,
no one liked me,

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I didn’t like them either,
but I also didn’t like myself.

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I was in a bad situation.

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I had 5 or 6 very painful operations.

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I was hospitalized for many months and
didn’t show up at school very often.

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I hated school and
I spent my free time in my world,

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playing computer games –
it was my entire world.

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I hate this time
as it was a terrible period.

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But then it wasn’t better.

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I was a very insecure person.

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I was very unsuccessful in life,
as I was very afraid.

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I was afraid what others think
and to step out of my comfort zone.

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The fear was winning with me.

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I was afraid of doing anything to change
my life, as the fear paralyzed me.

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After high school, I went to college
and I was also a failure there.

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I was still overwhelmed by this fear
and I didn’t do anything.

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Fear blocked me and it led to the fact
that even though I finished college,

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I was still failing in many aspects.

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I started my first job
at a car parts factory in Tychy.

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By the way, I come from Oświęcim.

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It’s near Kraków
and it’s a very infamous city.

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A large part of my family works in
automotive industry,

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in Silesian factories.

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When I was 19,
I started my first job in a factory

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that produced metal parts for cars
and I felt terrible there.

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I felt that I didn’t fit in there.

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I gave up on this job very quickly
and I worked in many places from then on.

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I failed in many of these places.

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I was always giving up sooner or later
and I was very miserable.

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I was embarrased
that I fail over and over again.

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Everything I’ve been doing
always ended up as a great failure.

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I even had a company dealing with
video recording, editing,

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but I also let that go pretty quickly.

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Why is that?

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Because I was afraid to change anything.

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The environment I lived in –
a small town, friends, family –

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showed me a view of the world that was
the only possible option for my life.

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I couldn’t imagine working
in a factory for my whole life,

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as it was a terrible perspective.

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But I didn’t know what to do.

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That’s because my environment –
town, friends, family –

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showed me that I can’t do anything else
and I was very miserable.

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Also, I didn’t know how to fix myself,
how to change my life

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and how to be a better person.

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I lacked sources of inspiration
from the outside

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that I can do something different
and be better.

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Over the years, it led me to
various work-related issues,

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to long-term relationship and to
many other unpleasant everyday situations.

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I was afraid to do anything,
step outside my comfort zone

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and believe that
I can be something more than

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a person who isn’t fulfilled and does
things he or she doesn’t want to.

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I didn’t know what I want,
but I was afraid to take a risk

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and to try something new.

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Then I hit rock bottom
and I was in a very bad situation.

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I’ve been visiting a psychologist
and I was in a hole.

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I was literally a pile of shit
back in 2012

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and I have to admit it out loud here.

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And once I hit rock bottom,
I was in so much pain

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that I wanted to do something,
but I didn’t know what.

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At that time, I reached for
a book called “The Instant Millionaire”.

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I described this book a few videos ago.

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“The Instant Millionaire” book
changed my life completely.

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It was the first book from the category of
personal development books.

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It was a book
that told the story of

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a young man searching for
his place in life

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and asking a millionaire
who grows roses for advice.

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Check my video where I talk about it.

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It was the first book which showed me
that I can do something different.

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I went out of my town and environment
which didn’t suit me.

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This book’s author showed me that
there are people who do business,

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look for their place in life,
so I can also look for it and I can try.

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It gave me such a fresh breath of air
that there’s something beyond

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what I was doing at the time.

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So, I moved to Kraków.

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I’m sorry, as it’ll be a longer video,
but there will be pieces of advice

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at the end of it and a lot of cool stuff.

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Then I decided to write down my goals
and I moved to Kraków.

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During first months, I’ve been working
in a used clothing sorting plant.

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It was a bad, hard work
and I was fired after 4 months.

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They said I wasn’t suitable for it
and they were right.

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I want to thank the owner of
this company in Balice who fired me,

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becasue he was right –
I wasn’t suitable.

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Then I started working as a driver in
a restaurant in a downtown of Kraków.

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It was a bad job and I think I was paid
7 PLN per hour plus tips.

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By working there, I saw that despite
this crappy, but also quite nice job,

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I can work in a colorful place
where the music’s playing

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and where there are people
from all over the world.

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This place was in market square in Kraków,
which is colorful and crowded.

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Then I realized that
even though I have a poor job,

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I’m in a colorful environment.

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So, I don’t have to work at the factory,
getting up at 6

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and load sheet metal into an old machine
that sparks on me and smells of grease.

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I can even be a dumb driver,
but in a colorful, cheerful place,

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where people are smiling,
where you want to live and work.

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It was my first thought –
that I can do something different in life

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and not necessarily
what I’ve been doing in Oświęcim.

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There weren’t
such colorful places in Oświęcim.

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So, it was my first success.

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Later, I became a waiter
in this restaurant.

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It reaffirmed me that
even though the work was difficult,

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I thought that I want to come back
to the restaurant every day,

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as it’ll be fun.

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Despite all the difficulties
in gastronomy business,

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it was colorful, I wanted to do it,
I could meet wonderful people

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and make new friendships.

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So, my life changed a lot in terms of work
within 6 months or a year.

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I was a waiter for 3 years.

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I realized that work can be
interesting and colorful.

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At that time, I read a lot of
self development books,

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written by the people
I took inspiration from.

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These were autobiographies,
motivational

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and personal development books,
about business.

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These books broke a barrier in my head
of what’s possible.

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If you read 10 books about famous people
who achieved something and about business,

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then you know
that you can do it too.

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You start wanting this and looking for
ways to do something interesting,

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learning how to create a business
and how to be the person you want to be.

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You read books, surrounding yourself
with cool knowledge and inspiration.

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I was very fascinated by the books.

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Many people even said,
“Why the hell do you need these books?”

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In the meantime, I became
a manager of this restaurant

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in which I started as a scooter driver.

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I was stepping out of
my comfort zone in a big way.

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When I record this video,
I’ve been a manager of this restaurant

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for 2 years now.

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This work forced me to
overcome my barriers,

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to acting in spite of fear
and to achieve goals under duress.

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I’ve met my current fiancée there,
my life has changed,

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we’re building our apartment, etc.

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It all led me to a place where I’m now.

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At the time when I was a waiter,
by reading development books,

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seeking knowledge on the Internet,
on YouTube, etc.,

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I found the topic of online business.

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I began to learn online business
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more interested in
personal development.

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I published my first books,
which I discuss in other videos.

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Over time, being both
a manager and a waiter,

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I’ve been learning
online business

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and I’ve published
550 products on Amazon to date.

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Many books,
simple products, e-books.

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I created a blog
which is based on my passions, that is,

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online business, overcoming weaknesses,
taking on projects and learning.

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Here I am now –
I have a wonderful fiancée,

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our apartment is almost ready, I sell
more than a thousand products monthly,

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I have 550 products on Amazon,
I have an online business

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and I work successfully as a manager.

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And I started 5 years ago
while being in a big hole.

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That’s how I’ve changed my life.

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Now, is it a lot?
Yes, it’s a damn lot for me.

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That’s because
I’ve turned my life around completely.

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I totally changed
and I’m a different person now.

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Take it as an inspiration – you can change
your life completely within a few years.

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Even if you’re
down and out, depressed

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and you don’t know
what to do with yourself.

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You can be inspired, read books,
gain knowledge

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and quit the place in your head
or on the map that you’re currently in.

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Maybe you want to change
your poor job or create a business.

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Let my story inspire you to think
that you can change your situation.

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Now, I want to present to you –
basing on my experiences and knowledge –

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11 rules of mine
that will help you change your life.

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Let’s start from the top.

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First rule –
change your way of thinking.

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Surround yourself with people,
read books, watch movies,

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talk to people better than you.

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I recommend you books, as it’s
a cool way to change your thinking.

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Every day, read books about
online business,

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and books by people
who achieved something.

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You’ll understand that
you can change your situation.

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Second – believe in yourself.

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I’m reading “How to Get Rich” now.

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Felix Dennis claims that
you can’t achieve anything,

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if you don’t believe in yourself.

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That’s the basic thing –
you must believe in yourself,

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because otherwise
no one will believe in you.

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Third – overcome your
comfort zone every day.

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Previous video was about it.

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You have to do something
that scares you every day,

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overcome weaknesses
and after a year you’ll be a person

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unrecognizable even to yourself.

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Fourth – just act.

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Even if you don’t know something
and you’re not sure how it works,

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just do it, because you’ll never know
exactly how to do something.

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So, do it, even if you don’t know how –
you’ll figure it out in time.

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Just act, because action
moves you forward,

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even if you don’t know
how to do something yet.

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Make mistakes.

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Remember – if you act,
you’ll make mistakes,

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but it’s the only way to move forward.

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Learn on your mistakes.

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Only people who don’t do anything
don’t make mistakes.

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Sixth – learn and observe.

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Doesn’t matter if you’re 5 or 55,
you have to learn new things every day,

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soak up knowledge and be like a child.

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That’s because a curiosity and constant
learning allow you to develop yourself.

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People who don’t develop
don’t achieve anything in life.

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Seventh – work damn hard.

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You need to work hard every day
and move forward,

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because you can have
ideas and plans,

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but you won’t achieve them,
if you don’t move your ass

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and move forward everyday.

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That’s because only hard work
can bring results.

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You should do something
that turns you on –

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like online business,
books on Amazon and blog in my case.

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I love recording videos
and writing articles,

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even though
I work hard and I’m tired.

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So, if you do something what
you like even a bit,

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then it’s something more than work.

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Eight – it’ll be hard –
disconnect from people,

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surrounding, friends, family
that block you.

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That’s because often you live with
somebody who blocks you.

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Until you realize that you need to
get away from this environment

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and cut off from some people,
then you’ll never be able to move forward.

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Surround yourself with
people better than you

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and with the ones who inspire you.

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Not with those who depress you,
who persuade you to party,

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to be bad, poor and average.

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Be something more than that.

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Ninth – be prepared for
a lot of difficulties.

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Unfortunately, it won’t be easy.

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If you decide to follow
this difficult path of changing life,

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it’ll be hard for you,
you’ll encounter obstacles,

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but it’s the only way of
moving forward.

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Tenth – be a systematic person.

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Remember – you need to overcome
your obstacles, get out of comfort zone

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and do something every day.

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You just need to push your life
forward every day

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and after a few years
you’ll literally be in a different place.

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Small step every day –
a whole new world after a year.

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Last thing – never give up.

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If you fight and
act systematically every day,

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then your life will be different,
if you just don’t give up.

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So, don’t give up and don’t let
yourself think you can’t do it.

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Believe in yourself,
change your way of thinking, read books,

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learn, observe, make mistakes,
act and don’t give up –

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it’ll allow you to change your life.

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I’ve changed my life and I’m changing it
every day by fighting –

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and I wish you the same.

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I hope that this video will inspire you
to get out of a bad situation.

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Even if you’re in
the worst stage of your life,

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like I was once,
remember that you can act.

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Under this video you can find
a link to a blog article

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with the same content as here.

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You can save it and download
affirmations from my blog.

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If you’ve enjoyed this video,
give me a thumbs up,

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subscribe and watch my other videos.

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I hope I’ve helped you,
because I’ve been through hardship

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and now I’m trying to push my life
forward and change it every day.

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I hope that you’ll succeed too.

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Thanks for watching.
Good luck. Bye!

 

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